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I'm a MS Warrior, a mom of 2 boys, and the best wife ever!! I was forced into early retirement due to MS. I decided to become a distributor for ItWorks Global and work from home.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Mindless thoughtS


               It’s now the end of July and I am still home on disability. Still no relief in sight, I have tried a new medication which was a week of self injections. We all know how Susan loves these types of medications. I have become so used to shooting myself that I might as well become a heroin addict maybe that will help. So far the majority of my summer has been spent in my house and two thirds of that time is spent in bed. I tried a couple day activities with the kids and everyone had fun but mom who suffered silently.

                I understand that MS is a very complicated and unpredictable disease but I have been feeling worse than ever lately. Since my diagnosis in 2009 I have had some things get better like the entire middle of my body being numb while at the same time certain things have been getting progressively worse. My MRI’s come out with nothing new or active in my spine yet my legs are weaker than ever, I cannot walk without assistance and as of today I cannot stand up for more than a minute before my legs start shaking and give out on me. The muscle tone in my right leg is so bad that when I drive I can barely push the pedals. I have been and still am on so many different medications that you would think I would feel better. I think my Dr. thinks I am crazy at this point. I also feel like he has no clue lately due to the fact that he is free of MS. All of these issues and progression with no new lesions or active ones makes me think it is way more than MS.

                MS is an auto immune disease and starts in the brain. My immune system is actually the total opposite of what it should be. I am a ridiculously fast healer and very resistant to infection which is not the norm for MS. I also have 3 nonexistent lesions on my brain and a spine riddled with them. A person knows their own body and when you think there is something wrong usually there is. I have been researching on the computer and to me it seems more neuromuscular than autoimmune. Wait till my Dr. hears this come out of my mouth. I know stress, heat diet, yadda yadda yadda affect the MS but I have been eating different, staying inside in the AC and as for stress like I always say everyday life is stressful for everyone.

                As everyone can tell from reading previous blogs that I write about my entire life, I hide nothing. I also would like to reiterate that the reason I started this blog was give people a glimpse at the life of just one person living with MS. I have been doing a lot of thinking lately because that’s all I can do all day. I still manage to take care of my family and my house. I go out and do what needs to be done like food shopping and banking, I never go alone anymore and just one shopping trip does me in for the whole day. So my thinking is lately that nobody believes me due to all this. I guess the fact that I use a cane all the time and walk like the humpback of Notre Dame means nothing. Apparently I have been given the incredible gift of hiding and dealing with stress and sickness extremely well. My life has been o constant downward spiral as far as finances, health and relationship goes. With everything that goes on (I will spare the lengthy details) I walk around very well adjusted and normal. To me this seems abnormal. I feel like I should be going crazy or something. I have no time for useless nonsense or everyone else’s crap being piled on my own. Everyone has their problems but right now mine seem like they are the worst to me and no offense I don’t care about anyone else’s shit.

                This particular blog was not so much about one specific thing but more for a much needed vent. I did not get it all out but enough came out for now. So to recap, I am still felling shitty and getting worse by the day, I am still too broke to pay attention, my marriage is still rocky, and apparently I am going crazy now (at least in my own head). Hey I gotta keep on truckin though and I do it all for the loves of my life and the reasons I breath, my boys <3.

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